01-03 Fear

Fear

Fear that we will have to survive an indeterminate period of misery, deprivation and unsatisfied craving in order to be free. Fear that a night all by yourself or the eve of a test or exam will be miserable fighting uncontrollable impulses. Fear that we’ll never be able to concentrate, handle stress or be as confident without our little crutch. Fear that our personality and character will change.

But most of all, the fear of ‘once an addict always an addict,’ that we will never be completely free and spend the rest of our lives at odd times craving the occasional porn induced orgasm. If, as I did, you have already tried all the conventional ways to quit and been through the misery of what I describe as the willpower method of stopping, you will not only be affected by that fear, but convinced you can never quit.

If you are apprehensive, panic-stricken or feel that the time is not right for you to give up, then let me assure you that your apprehension or panic is caused by fear. That fear is not relieved by PMO but was indeed created by PMO. You didn’t decide to fall into the porn trap. But like all traps, it is designed to ensure that you remain trapped. Ask yourself, when you viewed those first porn pictures and videos, did you decide to come back to view them as long as you have? So when are you going to quit? Tomorrow? Next year? Stop kidding yourself! The trap is designed to hold you for life. Why else do you think all these other PMO addicts don’t quit before it kills their lives?

As you will soon be reading, the feedbacks I got has revealed information that has exceeded my wildest aspirations of the effectiveness of my method. It has also revealed two aspects of the method that have caused me concern. The second I will be covering later.

The first arose from the letters that I have received. I give three typical examples:

• “I didn’t believe the claims you made and I apologize for doubting you. It was just as easy and enjoyable as you said it would be. I’ve shared the link to your hackbook to some of my PMOer friends but I can’t understand why they don’t read it.”
• “I was forwarded your hackbook eight months ago by an ex-PMO friend, I’ve just got around to reading it. My only regret is that I wasted eight months.”
• “I’ve just finished reading your EasyPeasy. I know it has only been four days, but I feel so great, I know I’ll never need to PMO again. I first started to read your book five months ago, got half-way through and panicked. I knew that if I went on reading I would have to stop. Wasn’t I silly?”

I’ve referred to a magic button. EASYWAY¹ works just like that magic button. Let me make it quite clear, EASYWAY isn’t magic, but for me and the hundreds of thousands of quitters who have found it so easy and enjoyable to quit. it seems like magic!

This is the warning. We have a chicken and egg situation. Every PMO addict wants to quit and every user can find it easy and enjoyable to quit. It’s only fear that prevents users from trying to quit. The greatest gain is to be rid of that fear. But you won’t be free of that fear until you complete the book. On the contrary, like the lady in the third example, that fear might increase as you read the book and this might prevent you from finishing it.

You didn’t decide to fall into the trap, but be clear in your mind, you won’t escape from it unless you make a positive decision to do so. You might already be straining at the leash to quit. On the other hand you might be apprehensive, Either way please bear in mind: YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LOSE!

If at the end of the book you decide that you wish to continue to PMO, there is nothing to prevent you from doing so. You don’t even have to cut down or stop using porn while you are reading the book, and remember, there is no shock treatment. On the contrary, I have only good news for you. Can you imagine how the Count of Monte Cristo felt when he finally escaped from that prison? That’s how I felt when I escaped from the porn PMO trap. That’s how the millions of ex-users who have used my method feel. By the end of the book: THAT’S HOW YOU WILL FEEL! GO FOR IT!