Warning
Perhaps you are somewhat apprehensive about reading this book. Perhaps, like the majority of PMO addicts, the mere thought of stopping fills you with panic and although you have every intention of stopping one day, it is not today.
If you are expecting me to inform you of the terrible health issues that PMO addicts risk, that they are susceptible to be affected by PIED (porn induced erectile disfunction), unreliable arousals, fading penetration, loss of interest in real partners,loss of control over themselves, loss of relationships, that it is a filthy, disgusting habit and that YOU are a stupid, spineless, weak-willed jellyfish, then I must disappoint you. Those tactics never helped me to quit and if they were going to help you, you would already have quit.
Our Method, which I shall refer to as EASYPEASY doesn’t work that way. Some of the things that I am about to say, you might find difficult to believe. However by the time you’ve finished reading the book, you’ll not only believe them, but wonder how you could ever have been brainwashed into believing otherwise.
There is a common misapprehension that we choose to watch porn. PMO addicts ( yes addicts) no more choose to do that than alcoholics choose to become alcoholics, or heroin addicts choose to become heroin addicts. It is true that we choose to boot up the laptop, fire up the browser and visit our favourite online harem1 tube sites. I occasionally choose to go to the cinema, but I certainly didn’t choose to spend my whole life in the cinema theatre. The curiosity and my nature took me there but I would not have done that if I had known it would addict me and cause me my health, happiness and relationships. Only if I had heard about PIED on my first visit to that porn site?
Please reflect on your life. Did you ever make the ‘positive’ decision that at certain times in your life, you couldn’t enjoy a good night sleep or pass a night after a hard day at work without surfing for porn, or that you couldn’t concentrate or handle stress without masturbating to orgasm at the end of the day? At what stage did you decide that you needed PMO, not just for lonely nights, but that you needed to have them permanently in your life, and felt insecure, even panic-stricken without online porn which I will call your online harem?
Like every other PMOer, you have been lured into the most sinister subtle trap that man and nature have combined to devise. There is not a parent, brother, sister on this planet, whether they be PMOer themselves or not, that likes the thought of their children using porn and PMO to cope and for pleasure. This means that all PMOers wish they had never started. Not surprising really, no one needs porn to enjoy life or cope with stress before they get hooked.
At the same time all PMOers wish to continue to PMO. After all, no one forces us to turn on the incognito mode of the browser, whether we understand the reason or not, it is only PMOers themselves that decide to knock on the doors of the online harems.
If there were a magic button that the PMOers could press to wake up the following morning as if they never accessed their very first tube site…. the only PMO addicts there would be tomorrow morning would be the youngsters who are still at the experimental stage. The only thing that prevents us from quitting is: FEAR!
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